Potty Training Tips for Little Boys
Although many potty training tips apply to boys and girls alike, potty training boys does pose some unique challenges. Whether you’re wondering when to start potty training boys, to teach sitting or standing first, or how to encourage good aim, here are some great toilet training tips to help you potty train boys with confidence.
1. Be Patient
As eager as you may be to ditch the diapers, many moms stress the importance of delaying toilet training until your son is ready. When asked one mom said, “The best advice I can give you is to wait until he is showing signs that he is interested.” Another mother-of-three agrees: “I have twin boys who weren’t potty-trained until they were over three…I know it’s hard to wait, but honestly, for me it was worth it.” Common signs of potty training readiness (which generally appear around age 2-3) include asking questions about the bathroom and toilet, staying dry for longer periods of time (indicating stronger bladder control), wanting to wear \”big kid\” underwear, or telling you when he’s soiled a diaper.
2. Sitting or Standing?
“Start out by sitting and then move to standing,” advises one of many moms who recommend first teaching boys to urinate while sitting before graduating to standing lessons. In addition to simplifying the learning process, starting with sitting can minimize messes. And if your son is missing the bowl while seated, try this potty training tip a mother of two boys: “If you put little boys on the toilet backwards the pee magically gets in the bowl.”
3. Imitating the \”Big Boys\”
The standing element is an obvious challenge for potty-training boys. When your son is ready to learn to pee standing up, several moms recommend having an older male relative set an example: “Let him follow daddy around or older siblings; seeing other boys like him use the toilet might motivate his interest.”
4. Ready, Aim…
In addition to having another male demonstrate, one trick many moms shared is to toss circle-shaped cereal (like Cheerios or Froot Loops) into the toilet and have your son take aim. They suggested using a ping pong ball for the target (don’t worry, it won’t flush away). Others suggested squirting liquid detergent into the bowl so that pee produces bubbles!
5. Take it Outside
Incorporate outdoor time into potty training boys: Our mom says, “I think potty training boys is easiest when done in the warmer months of spring and summer. Pick a tree in the backyard and have fun! They learn quite quickly.”
6. Attaboy!
Continual motivation and reminders are very important for potty training boys, as active toddler boys may not want to stop what they’re doing in order to use the toilet, or stay on the toilet long enough to relax and go. Try using motivational items like buying “big kid” underwear that he’ll want to keep clean, having special toys and books for potty time, and offering plenty of praise and prizes. What also helps is getting REALLY EXCITED when they go. Potty song, dance, stickers, treats, whatever works for your child. Try stickers for every time they go and if they stayed dry all day they got a special dessert after dinner. If they stay dry for a certain amount of days they get a small toy (rubber snakes/frogs/lizards seem to work well for boys). Gradually, make it more and more days to get the treat, then a week to get a book or something, and before you know it they will be dry all the time.
Persistance and a positive attitude is key! They will get it
